Sunday, April 26, 2009

Stalked!!!....and I like it!!!

OK, dramatic title.

I have rarely had a woman write to me about an affair. As those on IE know if you are a man you have to be very pro-active in contacting women. My outbox outnumbers my inbox by 3 to 1. Some women are really kind with their responses "no thanks", "Not for me". I've even had a "Leave your details, if it doesn't work out with new boy, I'll come back to you" twice now. Nothing like being an available spare.

Anyway, before I met "M" I received an email from "C". She was 26 years old, while I am in my late 40's. She was a nice, rubenesque white woman from the midlands. We started our conversation and it went along the lines of;

Me: Your much too young for me (I do like older ladies, my fantasy is to make love to someone 60 or over)

C: Age is but a number

Me: But you live outside London. Its miles to your place.

C: I can come down to your place, no problem.

Me: But we might not like each other and that would be a wasted journey for both of us (we had agreed to meet before the test the "chemistry")

It turns out that she was single and hadn't had sex for 10 months. We both got on MSN and started to talk. Through talk and email I learned never to refer to her age. I have not done so nice as she is the most mature person I have met.

Anyway, what she wanted was a good fuck, and our MSN sessions were cybersex in its true sense. In more than one session she almost came as we talked about what we would do to each other. I on more than one occasion had to have a wank, I was ssssssssssssssoooooooooooooo horny.

Eventually, it all got the better of us and we agreed that I would book a hotel (Ibis is great to book as you can cancel on the same day if things go tits up) and meet to test the chemistry beforehand.

I drove up to the Midlands, it took me three hours, on a journey that should have taken half the time. Roadworks, and a woman who decided to shunt into me delaying the journey.

When I got to the meeting place an offer of a drink was swiftly refused as I said "lets go". She was fit to fuck, and boy I wanted to fuck her the moment I saw her at our meeting place. She was around 5' 6" and a size 22. Not being big on women's sizes, a 22 means next to nothing to me. Now I know.

We had some of the best sex I had in my life. She went down on my, I went down on her, and soon she simply said, "I want you inside me", well, I didn't need more encouragement then that, and for two hours we humped and heaved and moaned as we changed positions.

I love it deep and slow, and as she has now asked for part two, I now know that she likes it. I never made her cum, she was so wet, but this time, she will cum.

Saturday, April 25, 2009

A lazy saturday with "m"..

Took "M" out today up the West End. It was reallly pleasant. Didn't know you had to do so much walking to find some components for a camera. She is shy, so I stepped into the breach with my manly commands, asking the shop assistants pointedly about make, and price.

I think I did it in a way to leave her with the option of saying, "let's move on and compare prices with other shops". I was eager not to take over. Again, she was frisky, but as a poster has said "interested, but no promises". I really hope that six months down the line, where still not at this frisky stage, i'd go mad.

It was a very tiring day, and its probably the most tired I've felt in a long time during the day without actually having a good fuck.

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

See how it goes....

Can someone explain to me what "see how it goes" well, goes? If you get frisky with someone on a first date like "m" has with me. What more do you need to find out, inside trousers measurements? I am taking "m" out on Saturday. I suspect that we will end up being frisky, but she will still say "see how it goes..."

All I can say is that I'm damn horny and don't want to see how it goes. I want some bed action. OK, it helps us develop our relationship, but in all honesty, IE is a sexual relationship site. Granted some use it to find love, others companionship, but most use it for sex, even in a "loving" relationship.

So what is see as it goes?

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

A first date......

Been in contact with "M" for a week or so. When I went on our first date with her it was real funny. We met nearly around the same place at a London main line station. She rang me, but my phone didn't pick up. I rang her back (I checked my phone) and I saw her articulating as I asked her questions.

She wondered how I knew it was her. Well, she did look like her picture only more curves, much more curves, her body gestures were in tune with my call, and there weren't many other chocolate coloured women around.

You learn a lot about a woman on a first date. You guys should try the "what would you like to eat / where would you like to go" if its a general first meet. For me, the question tells me if she's decisive, or is happy to let the man lead. Males leading on a first date does not mean leading all the time, but just lodge it in your brain. You might find your the one thinking about exciting places to go outside of the bedroom.

Anyway, I venture her to a bar inside the station. I've been here before so for me its safe. I know how to order, the payment process so I look good and in command.

I show her the menu. Again, blank expression. I feel that tonight I've really got my work cut out.

I then suggest some Indian food for both of us to eat. Acquiesce again on her part. It makes you think. Is this woman a serial dater and a way for her to get free food (I always pay on a first date, we can double dutch later).

She tells me she's shy. OOOOkkkaaaaay, that explains a lot. She then goes on have a sparking conversation with me, telling me about her other terrible dates. She's surprisingly conversant for a shy girl and I feel easy in her company.

But something is missing.

God, if I was in a hotel room, we'd be banging all night long. So I take the initiative. I say, "I'm gonna give you a cuddle". Not only doesn't she protest, but we start some deep tongue massage.

Bingo - this is what you're like when you haven't had sex for three years.

Soon our hands are all over each other, proper love birds. I try the stiff willy trick. Will she stroke my penis on a first date? Will she let me rub her clit?

OK, school boy "tests" but it almost worked. The little rub I got before she pulled my hand away told me that she was getting wet.

Now I've done "Internet" sex, where you describe sex acts and the person on the other end really gets hot. I've made one or two women either cum, or as near to cum as possible. But I've never tried it on someone who was right next to me.

I started to describe what i would do to her breast. They were big and succulent. You coud bury your head in them and get lost. I described how I'd work my tongue down to her clit. I described how I'd get her wet orally before entering her. I've never heard a woman moan so much feeling hot and horny, and trying at the same time not to cum in public. It was a sight I will treasure.

Anyway, to her credit she didn't want to rush me to a hotel and fuck me. But for me, more importantly we had a connection. And that is what I wanted.

Monday, April 20, 2009

Its so hard being on a sex relationship site

If you've never been on a site trying to get a "date" you'll never know what I mean. Both men and woman are on their for their own reason. Both are mercenary in their approach. Forget things like "personality more important than looks", its all bullshit.

Both men and women are on the sites with an agenda. You just have to hope that that agenda matches your own. I wonder if anyone is brave enough to break down the different types. I will try in a later post.

Friday, April 17, 2009

Cam Girl site?

When I joined Sex In the UK ( I thought, that this was the site for me. Most people had a proper picture of themselves, and very soon I was receiving invitations. It turned out that most of those invitations came from cam girls, who cruised the site with very, very enticing adverts.

There was one which I have kept on my MSN as she had the body of an angel. I've never got to meet her. But if there was a woman who oozed sexual appeal this was the woman. And she was working in cam!!! Oh, such a waste of a great body. She once had a semi naked picture on MSN which was very quickly removed as her womanly shape caused too many sexually explicit comments.

I later got burned with her as I arranged a date, dinner, bonking in a hotel room. Only catch was that I had to get a membership id from a cam site. Bad mistake, some £20 lighter, and the girl suddenly disappearing before I could confirm my date convinced me to quite SITUK.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

My first fledgling experiences of an extra marital affair

One day I'll work out why I go onto sex encounter sites. First I had the most weird ambition, which I have not really fulfilled as yet. I want to make love to a mature woman. When I say mature, I mean at least 60 years old. Don't really care about size, or even looks (unless they are really butt ugly, which is few and far between).

I also had a difficult marriage sexually, which I'll go through at some time in the future. But I was drawn to the sex sites first I tried Married but looking. I can't remember the URL, and if I did, I am not giving it out. It is without doubt a rip off site.

I then gravitated to fling UK. It has refreshed itself, but I never got one fling from it. I am sure that it worked for others but not for me. Sex in the UK was my next step. I'll give you a few stories from there.

But I was simply looking for someone other than my wife to explore sexually. A simple goal made difficult by bad sites. Anyway, upwards and onwards.

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Men, you really don't wanna do that.....

You guys on Illicit Encounters ( are dangerous. The feedback I am gonna give you, you won't necessary get in those wonderful testimonials you see on the site. Not that this blog is about dissing the site. This is more about my adventures on the site, both good and bad. Some of my comments come directly from women whom I've spoken to.

I've spoken to more woman than I've been able to date, but even the rejections have been sweet, for the most part.

i love IE. And for the money I can't say I've been disappointed. and at 119 per month, you should expect to make a few contacts.

My blog will go back and forth, sideways and forwards as a way to catch up with my mini adventures. I hope you can join me and leave a comment or two.

Anyway I've digressed as I tend to do. You guys pay £119 per month for the privilege and act as if your on one Sex in The UK,( a clearly inferior product full of cam girls ready to fleece you at the first opportunity. One day, I'll tell you of my misadventures on this site.

Anyway, I was really surprised to learn that men leave dick shots on their hidden photos in IE. Now why? Of course women will want that dick in them AT SOME STAGE, but really guys, you've not even met them and you've told them all they need to know about you.

Women on IE want romance AND sex. Dick shots really do not work guys. Well, not until you get the goods so to speak....